The Haggler's Handbook
One Hour to Negotiation Power
Publisher: Norton, 1991 , 130 pages
ISBN: 0-393-30920-7
Synopsis:
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The Haggler's Handbook is the indispensible tool for the nineties, when everything has become negotiable and the art of haggling has become the latest trend. It teaches you the real art of the deal in only one hour, with more than 100 proven negotiating tips, tactics and strategies that work equally well in a rug bazaar, a car showroom, a lawyer's office, or a corporate boardroom.
The book is designed for fast reference and maximum utility, with tactics keyed by graphics that indicate friendly, neutral, and hardball. It moves from overall negotiating psychology to maneuvers suited for short, protracted, stalled, and professional negotiations, to countering an opponent's dirty tricks.
The Haggler's Handbook is a book that, once used, will make you wonder how you ever got along without it.
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- Chapter 1: Preparation
- Read and Remember
- Look at Yourself
- Knowledge Is Power
- Remember It's Just a Game
- Hold Your Horses
- Push, Push, Push
- Take a Chance
- It's Okay to Ask
- Think "I'm on Stage"
- Do More Research
- Create Intimacy
- Watch Your Back
- Think Big
- Be Believable
- Prioritize Needs and Desires
- Know Your Bottom Line
- Hide Your Bottom Line
- Change with the Changes
- Use Your People Resources
- Rehearse Possible Scenarios
- Chapter 2: Basic Psychology
- Provoke a Negotiation
- Be Likable
- Build Trust
- Put Emotions on the Table
- Note Cultural Differences
- Feed Your Opponent's Ego
- Hang Tough
- Listen Politely
- Keep Your Cool
- Shift Perspectives
- Be Direct
- Open Your Eyes and Ears
- Act Dumb
- Be a Good Audience
- Speak Their Language
- Just Say Yes
- Plant New Concepts Early
- Gently Lead Your Opponent
- Gracefully Turn the Tables
- Deflate Their High Hopes
- Hold Your Tongue
- Involve Your Opponent
- Be Discreet
- Don't Take It All
- Don't Destroy His Ego
- Boost His Self-Esteem
- Chapter 3: Short Negotiations
- Dare to Be a Jerk
- Get to the Point Quickly
- Question Authority
- Think "Discount"
- Glamorize Your Goods
- Flaunt Your Options
- Enhance the Deal
- Act Knowledgeable
- Make Them Say Yes or No
- Take One More Bite
- Use First, Pay Later
- Drag It Out
- Don't Take Phone Calls
- Depersonalize Communication
- Have a Ready Reply
- Put It in Writing
- Chapter 4: Longer Negotiations
- Vary Your Approaches
- Formulate a Shared "Win"
- Act Nice, Think Tough
- Stress Objective Criteria
- Use the Grapevine
- Create a "Higher Authority"
- Convert His Associates
- Hang Back
- Show Your Warts
- Use Time Pressure
- Watch for Impatience
- Make Sure the Time Is Right
- Avoid Subordinates
- Negotiate Micro-Deals
- Leverage Their Interest
- Give In Rationally
- If You Give, Also Get
- Give Small, Make It Seem Big
- Moderate Your Demands
- Summarize the Agreement
- Chapter 5: More Formal Negotiations: Contracts, Consultants, and Bureaucracies
- Mark up the Document
- Put It in Writing Somewhere
- See through Their Posturing
- Get Value for Your Money
- Hire an Expert Haggler
- Watch for Conflict of Interest
- Help Out Your "Partner"
- Speak Up Loudly
- Find the Person
- Go to the Top
- Encourage Loose Lips
- Humanize the Communication
- Set Deadlines and Keep Records
- "Policy" Can Always Be Changed
- Pinpoint Your Threats
- Create Empathy
- Chapter 6: What to Do at an Impasse
- Think Positive
- Agree on Easier Items First
- Emphasize Shared Goals
- Reduce Complexity
- Think Things through Together
- Use Creative Problem-Solving
- Build Agreements by Increments
- Take a Break
- Divide and Conquer
- Get the Other Side's Attention
- Don't Make Idle Threats
- Try the Artful Freakout
- Let Blind Chance Decide
- Invoke God and Humanity
- Let a Third Party Decide
- Ask for Sympathy
- Chapter 7: Dirty Tactics and Strategies
- Be Cautious
- Expose Their Tricks
- Always Keep Your Mind Clear
- Don't Neglect Your Interests
- Avoid Unwarranted Delays
- Worry When You're Told Not To
- Suspect Glaring Greed
- Refuse Renegotiation
- Sidestep the Onslaught
- Too Good to Be True #1
- Too Good to Be True #2
- Don't Be the Patsy
- Don't Tolerate Abuse
- Use Your Head, Guard Your Heart
- Avoid the No-Choice Choice
- Specify Agreement Safeguards
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